What do gay people call their straight partners to hide

Salam, I am gay, I am never merried, never engaged in any sexual activity my parents want me to get merried to a girl, my parents want me to get merried I tried to tell my mum that I don't like girls, but my mum was like love happens after merrage how would you know when you havn't been merried and I am single child of my parents who are old, so they are worried about how would I live without a partner expecially when I am highly dependent person.

I too feel like life would be really depressing without anyone in my life and I was also thinking maybe things change.

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I tried to watch straight porn, but I didn't felt attracted to females in it so should I get merried to a girl what does shariat says about it. I tried to ask a Maraji representative about my question, but he became extreamly angry even when I started and disconnected the phone.

You can marry. It's perfectly possible to be intimate with someone you aren't particularly attracted to, and really friendship is the most important and lasting part of marriage. I, personally, do not recommend you do anything under false pretense. In my opinion, any potential wife should know exactly what she is agreeing to.

Yes, even though you will not be attracted to her, you will still have a life partner and companion. But like notme says, be very upfront about it. You can find many women who don't want to get married because they have PTSD from bad experiences, or women who don't have any good options.

They would love to get married to you. Friendship and companionship is so much more important than physical relations. There are millions of women, who have physical relations but they don't have friendship and companionship in their marriages. If you marry such a woman, you will actually do a favor to her.

There are plenty of platonic marriages, in history there were political marriages, there were many transactional marriages and many different reasons to get married. You mentioned some excellent reasons. You might fall in love with the person and their personality.

It maybe like many gay men you have women friends with whom you have had deep friendships, try to find a woman who fits your personality type. It's interesting that you say maybe things change, does that mean you think you might not be exclusively gay? That was an amazing answer from a sister who has has bad experiences as she has mentioned in the past.

Sounds like your from the UK. From your namemaybe a syed Shia from indopak background, sounds like you're not totally committed to the idea of being a gay unmarried guy for the rest of your life and maybe are lonely and looking for a life companion. In the not so distant past and even now, many gay men married women, because of a variety of reasons eg.

Men who get married are less depressed and are psychologically stronger data proven. By the way many Christians believe in successful gay conversion therapy and perform counseling for such people who are not happy with being gay. There maybe a woman who is need of a what do gay people call their straight partners to hide companion, her chances of marriage are not that high due to circumstances beyond her control, but would make an incredible wife Why not take a chance at goid things happening in your life bro.

In fact I bet you would have better chance at a successful marriage than exclusively straight person. Many gay people for a variety of reasons connect better with women, than super macho types. I would find a religious counselor who believes in gay conversion therapybe it Christian or Muslim or other, Talk to them.

Its very sad that our Marjae rep was so cold and callous, I would talk to an alim in your country, who has counseled gay people before, forget the rep, he might be one of those only concerned with Khums collections